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11-16-2011, 12:41 AM
"Everything that comes into life has two sides, a masculine and feminine quality, even love. The masculine side of love is 'I love you.' Longing is the feminine side of love: 'I am waiting for you. I am longing for you.' Longing is the cup waiting to be filled. And sadly, because our culture has devalued the feminine, we have repressed so much of her nature, so many of her qualities. Instead we live primarily masculine values; we are goal-oriented, competitive, driven. Masculine values even dominate our spiritual quest; we seek to be better, to improve ourself, to get somewhere. We have forgotten the feminine qualities of waiting, listening, being empty. We have dismissed the deep need of the soul, our longing, the feminine side of love." ~Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee
(Love is a Fire: The Sufi's Mystical Journey Home, page 23)