
Originally Posted by
Richard Amiel McGough
Rashi's comment makes some sense. I saw the same thing as one possible "aspect" of that verse, but it is not what the NT says about that passage. On the contrary, the NT says the man and woman are "one flesh" in the sense of they themselves being "one flesh" -
Ephesians 5:28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
The NT is clear - the "one flesh" refers to the unity of the man and woman as such, not merely in the sense of the child as a product of the two.
I think this shows why Jewish commentators should not be taken as "authoritative" when it comes to interpreting the Bible. They were just men who had their own fallible opinions like everyone else.
But why take Ephesians as authoritative? It even was not written by Paul. Ephesians 5:31 does read Genesis 1:24 out of context.
Matthew 19 continues with the statement:
whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.
Statement, not moral judgement.
Like also Matthew 5:32,
But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
And right before that, v.27-28:
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Also statement.
Matthew 19 continues with the disciples' remark:
“If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
Marry , Greek "gameo", has sexual connotation, "gamos"= cohabitation.
Like also in Matthew 22:30,
ἐν γὰρ τῇ ἀναστάσει οὔτε γαμοῦσιν οὔτε γαμίζονται, ἀλλ' ὡς ἄγγελοι ἐν τῷ οὐρανῷ εἰσιν.
For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.
As resurrected ones they don't have sex.
Matthew 19 continues with:
But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.”
Moreover,
Matthew 19:29 tells same kind of thing:
And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands, for my name's sake, will receive a hundredfold[c] and will inherit eternal life.
Luke 18:29-30 even inserts "wife"" :
And he said to them, “Amen, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or wife or brothers or parents or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God who will not receive many times more in this time, and in the age to come eternal life.”
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