I don't blame you for being frustrated. The problem comes down to one thing: the Bible says that Joseph was the husband [aner] of Mary. You have not dealt with this point yet. Just tell me if this is how you are interpreting the genealogy:
Originally Posted by duxrow
Matthew 1:16 And Jacob begat Joseph [#1] the father [aner] of Mary, of whom was born Jesus, who is called Christ. ... 18 Now the birth of Jesus Christ was on this wise: When as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph [#2], before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Ghost. 19 Then Joseph [#2] her husband [aner], being a just man, and not willing to make her a publick example, was minded to put her away privily. 20 But while he thought on these things, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared unto him in a dream, saying, Joseph, thou son of David, fear not to take unto thee Mary thy wife: for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Ghost. Are you saying that there are two Joseph's in this passage - one being Mary's father and the other her husband, and that both were called her "aner"?
Is that what you are claiming?